My bf is hot

I've suspected it for months, and now that he's met all my friends, I can no longer deny it. A pal even described us as "the funny one who dates the handsome one. We met three years ago at San Diego Comic-Con. He lived in San Francisco and was on assignment as a photojournalist, while I was flogging a comic book that I'd written in New York, where I live and work as a fashion editor.

Think back to the last time you eyeballed a really hot guy. Now, cast your mind back to the woman he was with. For instance, a hot boyfriend could prompt a confident chick to question her worthiness Robert never made me feel big, and I knew he was into me. He had beautiful eyes.

In fact, it totally crushed my self-esteem. My friends were all jealous in the worst way. I may be rocking my stompy boots and mom jeans, but a hottie needs a girl in heels and skinnies. I never felt like I lived up to his hotness.

Evan, I want an honest opinion on my predicament. I am in a year-long relationship and my boyfriend is a wonderful man. We have a strong connection and share a lot of values, views and interests. That was the essence of the conversation.